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Contact - letterbox

(See also Contact: Letterbox and Voices of birth parents & Contact - settling in letter ) Different children and agencies have different letterbox agreements. Contact generally is something they're trying to encourage more in modern day agreements. I'll do a different post on the detail of why's and some of my own thoughts/reflections, but it's likely that there will be an attempt to have at least letterbox contact, even if not direct contact. So, our agreement is once a year, but whilst little one is younger and so much changes so quickly, then i try to put something together for each month, I don't always manage to write it in month, but have the extra bonus of getting to use it as a lovely tool to think about the changes, developments and achievements in that month. I've been able to share when LO is asking questions about them, or about when she was with them - one example was when a friend was pregnant they showed her their ultrasound and LO asked ab...

Playful frustration tactics

See this one and recognised myself in it too https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1M2hgBswdT/ That point of frustration is hard and sometimes I do take the moment to put on my own oxygen mask first, I.e. to breathe before I yell. Mostly though, it's better to be a robot or a lion or a monster. Me doing a play roar and then acting surprised that it wasn't loud or came out wrong & getting little one to do a bigger roar than me has helped her re regulate far better & far more frequently than trying to encourage calm when she's feeling anything but that! It's mostly worked out that later she's been about being nervous or excited about something & not quite ready to work out what that feeling is or what has prompted it. A little time with a silly voice saved us a lot of yelling!

Brave Bear and the Very Busy Worry Guard

Created using AI after some challenging drop offs at holiday club Brave Bear and the Very Busy Worry Guard Every morning, Brave Bear and Mummy Bear got ready together. They brushed teeth. Packed a snack. Had one big cuddle. Most mornings, something else woke up too. It wasn't a monster. It wasn't a dragon. It was Brave Bear's Worry Guard. The Worry Guard was very good at its job. It would whisper, "What if Mummy doesn't come back?" "What if you need her?" "Stay close! Don't let go!" As soon as the Worry Guard started talking, Brave Bear wanted to cling tightly to Mummy. "I need to come to work with you," he said. Mummy Bear didn't laugh. She didn't tell the Worry Guard to be quiet. Instead she smiled gently. "Oh," she said. "Your Worry Guard has clocked in for work already this morning." Brave Bear giggled a tiny bit. "My Worry Guard is VERY loud." "I can see tha...

Sing in the rain

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