A purchase and the adoption symbol

I was sent this lovely badge when I ordered some cards from the lovely MumaDukeDesigns

(https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/Mumadukedesigns) and thought it might be worth sharing it.

This symbol represents what they call the “adoption triad” or adoption triangle. The three points of the triangle represent the child (at the top), the birth family, and the adoptive parents. The heart intertwined represents the love involved in the relationship of adoption.

My main order from them (a trepidatious one) for these beautiful cards below. Obviously I'd hope to use these with the little girl in linked with, but if not, hopefully for whoever I finally match with.

🤞 I get to use these sooner rather than later and can share pics of their use with you.

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Direct Contact prep resources

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